Eloping is one of the most intimate and meaningful ways to get married, but many couples worry that it might feel too simple or like just a really long photoshoot. The truth is, an elopement is whatever you make it—it can be just as emotional, memorable, and personal as a big wedding (if not more so!). If you’re wondering how to make your elopement feel special and truly celebrate your love, here are some ideas to create a meaningful experience.
1. Write and Exchange Personal Vows
Vows are one of the most heartfelt moments of any wedding, and they can be even more powerful in an elopement setting. Take the time to write personal vows that truly express your love, your promises, and your journey together. Maybe share jokes or sweet moments the two of you have. Consider reading them in a secluded red rock canyon, on a mountaintop, or by a peaceful lake—anywhere that feels significant to you.
2. Plan a Meaningful Activity
One of the best parts about eloping is that you’re not tied to a strict schedule. Instead of just posing for photos, incorporate an activity you both love. Some ideas include:
- Taking a Jeep or off-road adventure to a breathtaking overlook
- Wait until it gets really dark and watch the sky light up with the stars
- Hiking a short, scenic trail together
- Sharing a private picnic with your favorite foods
- Cuddling up with a cozy campfire
By doing something that reflects your relationship, your elopement day will feel more like a once-in-a-lifetime experience rather than just a staged moment. Including activities and adventure into your elopement day, allows for there to be more candid moments that your photographer can capture, rather than posing your in awkward ways that none of you like.
3. Incorporate a Symbolic Ritual
Adding a symbolic element can bring even more meaning to your elopement. Here are a few ideas:
- Handfasting Ceremony: A tradition where your hands are tied together with a ribbon or cord to symbolize your union.
- Unity Sand or Water Ceremony: Pouring different colored sand or water into one vessel to represent your coming together.
- Exchanging Letters or Gifts: Write letters to each other to read privately before the ceremony.
- Full Moon Ceremony: A full moon wedding symbolizes the end of a journey and the start of a new one. Many cultures believe full moon unions bring happiness and prosperity.
4. Choose a Location That Feels Right for You
Utah is full of breathtaking landscapes, from the red rock deserts of Moab to the dramatic cliffs of Zion and the serene waters of alpine lakes in the Wasatch Mountains. Your elopement location should reflect your personality and what makes you feel most at peace. Whether it’s an epic viewpoint, a quiet slot canyon, or a remote lakeshore, the right setting can make your day feel extra magical.
5. Wear Something That Makes You Feel Amazing
Your elopement attire doesn’t have to follow any rules—you can go as classic or as adventurous as you want. A flowing gown that moves in the wind, a stylish suit, or even hiking boots and a wedding dress combo can make you feel like yourself while still embracing the moment. Don’t be afraid to add personal touches like a meaningful piece of jewelry, a flower crown, or a custom jacket.
6. Include Loved Ones in a Meaningful Way
If you’re eloping without guests but still want to involve family and friends, consider:
- Live-streaming your vows for close family members
- Having loved ones write letters for you to read on your elopement day
- Holding a small reception or celebration later to share your photos and stories
- Bringing a sentimental item from a family member, like a piece of jewelry or a handwritten note
We talk a lot about not letting your family and friends pressure you into not eloping. But don’t feel pressured to not include them on your day, either! You can absolutely include some of your closest people and consider it an elopement or intimate wedding.
7. Celebrate in Your Own Way
Your elopement doesn’t have to end after your vows! Plan a special way to celebrate, such as:
- Riding off into the sunset on horses
- Enjoying a private chef-prepared meal at your Airbnb
- Taking a scenic boat ride or helicopter tour
- Ending the night with a cozy campfire and s’mores
- Sharing coffee together at the top of a mountain after your sunrise ceremony
- Make breakfast together
- Have drinks at a local bar
Final Thoughts
Your elopement should be a reflection of your love story and feel like the two of you, not just a photoshoot. By incorporating meaningful moments, special activities, and personal touches, your day will feel like an unforgettable experience rather than just a series of pictures. Remember, eloping gives you the freedom to design a day that truly feels like YOU—so embrace it and make it magical!
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